Who am I now? (Posted on August 30, 2019)

A question I am having trouble answering to myself, as I have been spending all day recuperating from my hospital stay and my tonsil infection, working on this blog. Trying to brand myself without labeling myself is the hardest thing I can do. WHO AM I WITHOUT LABELS?!
CBT has been teaching me to focus on my values, my goals, and my small victories. That is much harder than it sounds. Making this blog has been a throwback to my youth. The days spent on scene kid sites creating layouts and graphics, loving every moment. This is my modern grown-up version of that. I can and will find my identity, not my label during this process.
I am a designer, an artist, a social media profile. Those are my labels. My values are my art and design skills, my social networking skills, and my love for bringing people together. My goals are to hone in on those skills and to make 8 year old me feel completed and validated. My small victories are that I am actually making the effort to make my dreams happen.
What are your values, dreams and goals, and small victories? You are more than your labels, and I would love to know who you are beyond them. Sharing here can give you a moment to ask yourself these questions.
Thank you for reading and sharing, you are amazing!

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